How do I ignore her evil stares and whispering about me?
Back in October I got into it with my so called middle aged friend,Rochelle.Rochelle has this sidekick, a pathetic,bitter,and miserable senior citizen lady named Louise.I wore an unusual dress that sort of resemble’s Galadriel’s dress.She’s a character on Lord of the Rings.Most people like the dress because its unusual and beautiful but Louise and Rochelle made very ignorant comments about the dress.
Rochelle and Louise just always have something negative to say about what I wear and how I wear my hair. I finally got sick of it and told them both off.We just went back and forth via email and phone for 3 weeks.She even went as far as to pull teen girls over to the side and say right in front of them “See they’re 19 and dress better than you.” The teen girls just looked at me and asked “What was that about?” and walked off.They found it weird that she would pull them to the side and say that about me.Then Rochelle went as far as to say that I will never be successful just because I don’t dress in suits and fancy clothes in the church.
She even said God won’t bless me and that he will turn his back on me just because I don’t wear suits and fancy clothes like her.
And then she said I won’t get a husband.So in other words I’m going to die this lonely old lady just because I don’t wear suits and fancy clothing.
Church is about coming to praise God.Its not about a fashion show.I said just this to her and she said “We will see how successful you turn out.You don’t dress good enough.You won’t go far.
Well since that incident I have been blessed with a wonderful boyfriend.My big sister said God is proving her wrong.This boyfriend of mine wants us to get married down the line.My boyfriend likes me how I am.
Lately Rochelle and Louise are still giving me evil stares in choir practice.Louise also watches me.I sit next to my mentor in choir practice and on Sundays and Louise just be all up in me and my mentor’s mouth.And I have seen Louise and Rochelle whispering about me numerous times.I’m 26 years old.I’m too young for them to be picking with me.Rochelle is 51 and Louise is 67.They are too old for this kind of behavior.
How do I ignore them?Its really starting to get to me.I can’t do anything in choir practice without those 2 staring, sneering,and whiserping about me.Its getting to me.How do I ignore them?I even tried rolling my eyes back at Louise and it works for a minute and then she’s right back to giving me evil looks.She eyeballing me like Clint Eastwood does in his old western films.Its so annoying.How do I ignore these 2?
Create a video blog…instantly.
You need a new set of friends and they do not appear to be amongst your local christian community. That should tell you something…………….
By going to a shrink, or maybe commiting yourself to an mental institution: insanity is treatable in our days.
Ditch those two, get some real friends.
“So we say with confidence, ‘The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?’” (Hebrews 13:6).
“…put your hope in the LORD both now and forevermore.” (Psalm 131:1)
“And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:19).
“I can do everything through him who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:13).
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:6-7).
I may suggest that you do not wear that dress for your wedding
Tell the old bitches to shut up and know in your heart that these ladies completely missed the point of church. They’re old and bitter, and wish they had the youth you had. Never mind them, they’ll be dead someday.
Cast down all those evil words she’s speaking against you and don’t receive them. It sounds like she has a religious spirit that is out to condem and condemnation does not come from the holy spirit.
The bible says to reap coals of fire upon their heads. As these comments come to you from them pray for her, ask God to bring peace upon her heart and for Him to deal with her heart. Don’t take it upon yourself to argue your case. You have nothing to prove to anyone, and God knows who you are in Christ. Make sure you are grounded in who you are in Christ.
wow!
That sounded like a line out of my last Novel.
Envy is powerful stuff to write about.
A smile may go a long way in continuing t to drive them over the edge.